Would you rather slog at home as housewife or slog at office as a breadwinner.?

I don't know what you mean by slog,but staying home and raising the children you created instead of sending them off for someone else to install their values and belief on your responsibilities. The problem of the world do we have children and raise them ourselves and maybe fix this screwed up society and make big sacrifices, or do we not have children and become the office breadwinner?